Occasions
Funeral
The attention belongs to the person who died and to their family. A dark, plain tie shows respect without drawing anyone's eye.
Colours that suit it
Black. The traditional choice, though not the only one.
Knots that fit
Pattern and fabric
Plain is best, and a very subtle stripe or check is fine. Silk or grenadine. If all you have is a bright or casual tie, wearing no tie is better.
Which knot
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Four‑in‑Hand
Simple and understated.
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Half Windsor
A little more formal and still modest in size.
It depends
- If the family asks
- Their wishes come first, whether that is a colour or a nod to something the person loved.
- Other faiths and customs
- Customs differ. At Hindu and Buddhist funerals, mourners often wear white rather than black. If you are unsure, ask someone close to the family.
- Carrying the coffin
- Wear a dark suit unless the family asks for something else.
Better left at home
- Bright colours, flashy prints and novelty ties.
- A black suit, black shirt and black tie together, which draws attention.